In my previous post I spoke a bit about how LF contacted AL about me and how that lead to a discussion of people contacting ex's. I spoke with AL about how I do have a connection with my ex, but not like I communicate with her at all unless it's necessary. I.E. something major happens in her home city, or something happens with her family, etc. But I try not to reach out first. In fact, my ex contacted me with updates on her family last. I didn't respond.
AL let me know that in fact her ex husband called her that day. I have no idea why, she didn't elaborate much on their conversation. So I asked her if she told him about me. She said no. She said that she did tell him that she was in Kentucky (she's driving along the eastern United States on a road trip with her mother), and it seemed that he thought she was out there for a guy but didn't ask. Makes me wonder why she didn't work me into the conversation at some point...
Part of me understands about her communicating with him, he's possibly going to go to war in the next year, she has both of their dogs, they are divorced. But still, when is a good time to cut communication? Does he need to call and talk to her about the weather? Will she ever cut off all unnecessary communication with him? All of these seem to be unknown, and tend to make me worried about what others are trying to contact her. She has indicated that the others she used to date do try to contact her from time to time... what's the best way to handle that?
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