Passive aggressiveness. Fastest way to piss me off.
LF sent me that message around 6pm last night. All through the day she was texting me with updates on how she was physically feeling, actions that were going on, almost TMI (too much information) for me. But I listened... That's what supportive friends do, right?
I'm sure that with all that's been going on in her life that her emotions are flipping out, and perhaps that she isn't normally like this. But still, she sent me this message basically 2 days after I told her that passive aggressiveness was my biggest pet peeve. Well, I didn't answer that text from her.
So around 7:30 she sends another text: "u gonna come over bc if u do can u pick me up a burger from bk". Well, at that time I was out at dinner with a few of my friends. So no... about that time I made up my mind that I was not in fact going to go over to her place. Even if it was in my plans or not from before. Again, I didn't answer that text.
8:50pm: "wheres my hugs?"
To which I finally broke and answered.. (mind you, I was about 4 beers into the night and was comfortable playing Warcraft at home) "This is what I meant about passive aggressive :p "
She texted me back... "but I was joking, sorry." She texts again.. "u said yesterday u would visit me. im sorry".
Doesn't matter, "joking" or not. It happened... you weren't joking. You were trying to get me to come over, but being passive aggressive about it. Needless to say, I didn't respond. In fact, I'm not certain I said I would come over to see her that day, but maybe I did. The fact to me is that she was attempting to get me to come over in a passive aggressive manner... not a good sign of how she truly is.
10pm she leaves me a voice message: "A few of us are going to an outdoors movie tomorrow night if you want to come along. Friday we'll be doing it as well." Now that's a better way to approach me to get me to do something.
Currently my schedule is that I'll be going to a concert tonight (I'll let LF know that later), but Friday is currently open. Sum called me last night as well to check in and wants to hook up soon... But Sum is slammed this weekend with activities as well, so more than likely next week I'll hook up with her.
I haven't hung out with just my friend Carl, and his roommate is out of town this weekend, so maybe I'll do that Friday. Then again, my nerd itch for a Warcraft binge is coming on strong (I need to build up my character to be a Main Tank for my guild.. and I'm close.) and I may just do that this weekend. Time will tell. All I know is that tonight will be fun, and I won't be hanging out with LF. Maybe new opportunities will arise... I love randoms.
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