Tuesday, July 31, 2007

3 week rule?

So last night, after my soccer game (which we won 1-0 and I had a shut out), I went to hang out with LF for a bit, since I knew that the rest of my week might be a bit packed.

While we were making out, we were of course conversing about various topics. She asked me to go on a trip with her to her brothers to go water skiing, which I never have done before. I guess I could try it, but I hate the water.

It's not that I have a phobia or anything, but my parents used to use various activities as forms of babysitting for me. Sure, I picked up skills and such, and was out of the house, but still... it got annoying after a time. My parents put me in different things such as soccer, gymnastics (yeah... not my choice, it was my mothers), swimming, piano and various science and athletic summer camps.

So back to why I don't like the water. My parents put me into the local YMCA to take classes, their excuse was so that I wouldn't drown if ever in the water. That's great and all, but after taking repeated classes, and even passing the top level of the classes not once, twice but three times, it got old. Since my parents basically forced me to continue taking classes, it got to be a chore, and to this day I don't enjoy swimming.

The next reason is that the water is dirty. Sure, call me a wuss, but still with all of the dead things in the water, the dirt on the floor of it, the taste, the smell, ugh. Granted, I do love the views.

LF continues to promise me that we'd get to go into her brothers jaccuzzi after it and drink a lot, which we all know will lead to other shenanigans. Very tempting, she'll look damn hot in a nice bikini, and even better in the water on my lap.

So back to the 3 week rule. Earlier in this week, when LF and I were speaking, she told me that she wouldn't sleep with anyone until she's been with them for at least 3 weeks, and then she'll consider them in a relationship. WTF?

What's the difference between 3 weeks, and 3 weeks and 1 day? What about 2 weeks and a few days? She let me know that it's because after 3 weeks, you'll know if they will stick around or not. I guess that's a fair judgement, however for me it's based more on feelings. I guess I'm more of a romantic in that aspect.

She also tried to broach the subject of if I was involved with anyone else or not... But she didn't phrase it right, so I answered her question and didn't provide the answer she was looking for. She asked me "Are you thinking of anyone else?" To which I responded: "No, I'm here with you. Why would I be thinking of anyone else?".

Of course, I did get my date lined up with C tonight at 7:30... Then I'm seeing LF again on Wednesday, have a soccer game on Thursday and then leave to Seattle with SR on Friday for the weekend... hrm.

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